“An encyclopedic exploration of the most effective methods for giving children the courage to realize their full potential.” ― ADELE FABER, author of "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk"
This extraordinary guidebook offers a satisfying new approach to raising confident, healthy, whole human beings, from toddler to teen. Groundbreaking in both its scope and methodology, ParentShift dismantles some of our most pervasive myths and challenges some of our most popular parenting tools — including punishments, threats, bribery, and rewards — which, science has shown, consistently sabotage our long-term goals. Child development experts Linda and Ty Hatfield, along with award-winning journalist and author Wendy Thomas Russell, introduce dozens of practical skills designed to solve virtually any household challenge while honoring children’s emotional needs, preserving parent-child relationships and strengthening each child’s self-esteem.
"ParentShift works because it changes the way you SEE your child. It should be on every family’s bookshelf.” ― LAURA MARKHAM, author of "Happy Parent, Peaceful Kids"
"With easy-to-read text written with empathy and good humor... here are some of the best tools available to help you build the best possible, mutually respectful, and loving, life-long relationships with your kids.” ― JANE BLUESTEIN, author of "The Parent’s Little Book of List"
“ParentShift provides a refreshingly direct entry point for parents who are looking for actionable steps . . . Brilliant!” ― VANESSA LAPOINTE, author of "Discipline Without Damage"
“[Provides] parents an incredibly powerful and clear system to shift their way of being from gut reactors to intelligent responders.” ― NAOMI ALDORT, author of "Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves"
"The depth and scope of this work is profound, vast, and life-changing. Not to be read only once, a resource like this provides valuable support throughout time." ― Lynette Anderson, director of Hilltop Preschool, Huntington Beach, CA
"You owe it to yourself to learn from these masters. ParentShift is one of the most comprehensive and time-tested parenting books around. If you have only one parenting book in your library, this should be the one." ― Vickie Falcone, author of "Buddha Never Raised Kids & Jesus Didn't Drive Carpool"
"They say there's no how-to book for parenting... but this is it." ― Jenny Marder, mother of two
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One hundred years of research and science has given rise to a verifiable truth: Many popular child-rearing methods — long viewed as harmless alternatives to spanking — can drive deep divisions in parent-child relationships and damage children’s self-esteem.
These methods include punishments (such as threats, timeouts, grounding, revoking privileges, and docking allowances), as well as rewards (such as trinkets, star charts, and bribery.)
And, yet, for many parents, these methods seem to be the only thing keeping their households from dissolving into chaos. Take away their most useful parenting tools, and how can they expect their homes to function properly? How will they enforce limits, end conflict, and maintain authority?
The answers to all these questions — and so many others — reside in ParentShift.
Written by parenting educators Linda and Ty Hatfield and award-winning journalist and author Wendy Thomas Russell, this timely, compassionate guide distills a century's worth of research, science, and wisdom into an engaging, practical handbook for modern parents.
Built around ten universal truths that explain why all children behave the way they do (often at the most inopportune times!), ParentShift argues that only one child-rearing model — a model the authors call heart-centered — gives children what they need while honoring their ages, stages, and temperaments.
As innovative as it is inspiring, ParentShift mines the work and advice of the world’s leading experts to bring you complete toolkits designed to solve virtually any problem — from toddler to teen — while strengthening the parent-child relationship and preserving each child’s sense of self-worth.